The Visit by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

The Visit by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie pulled me in with its blatant societal role reversal for men and women. Told from the point of view of Obinna, the househusband of a successful and powerful woman in a matriarchal society, it was easy to empathize with his point of view as he prepares for a visit from and then visits with a childhood friend, Eze, who has remained single. The many direct and obvious parallels with current society are intriguing, interesting, and thought provoking without feeling heavy handed but still driving home the power of inequality. There's a beauty to the simplicity of The Visit that allows it to unfold as realistic and plausible by reversing the roles to explore not how women might handle the situation differently but how men would feel if women handled being in power the same way men have.


Check back soon for my thoughts on other books I'm reading including:


Negotiating with the Dead: A Writer on Writing by Margaret Atwood
Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Kristin Neff
Trouble by Janelle Brown
The Collected Poems of Elizabeth Barrett Browning


Reviews will be posted as I finish these books.



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